This is something you are not allowed to do as an adult. If I were to knock on doors in my street and asked if anyone wanted to come out and play, I would get a weird look and people would think I was a bit tetched in the head! For some reason, you have to plan things a week in advance for anyone to come over and hang out. Etiquette and manners have ruined the inner child! I have some wild-child tendencies and the loudest one never wants to plan anything in advance. It ruins that spontaneity! I do plan if I am going somewhere for more than 2 days or driving more than 10 hours away. But for the most part, I don't actually want to spend time with people until when I want to be around people. This is a serious character defect left over from childhood. But at the same time, wouldn't it be totally wicked fun if, as adults, we could knock on our neighbors doors and have a spontaneous pick-up game of football in the street?
"When you're lovers in a dangerous time, sometimes you're made to feel as if your love's a crime. Nothing worth having comes without some kind of fight. Gotta kick at the darkness 'til it bleeds daylight." ~Bruce Cockburn
21 November 2009
Exterior: Grown-Up; Interior: 5 year old
So being an adult is not as fun as it was when you were a kid. I have noticed this in the past couple of weeks being home. When you are a kid, if you are bored and want something to do, you can knock on the doors of the homes in your neighborhood. "Can so-and-so come out and play?" You would go around until you had enough kids for a pick-up game of football, baseball, or just an awesome game of dodgeball in the street. Everyone would play until the streetlights came on or someone's dad yelled that it was time for dinner.
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I think you should try this Emily...my mom did it when we were living in Beijing. It was fun because I remember all the ladies would get together often and go out grocery shopping together. Then I get to play with their kids. I think it was one of the happiest times in my mom's life. Just get out and chat people up...then it'd be perfectly fine to knock on their doors and ask them to hang out :)
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